I really need to speak with him soon about our financial position. I need to see a lawyer soon too.
Magic, talk to us here. Please do not do anything now as making a move now could be a serious misstep that has the potential to really hurt you. What's happening in your head about the "financial position"? There is no urgency in speaking to H about it now. It is your discomfort that is making noises inside your head. You will need to sit through this discomfort and it will eventually go away.
I agree that seeing a lawyer to arm yourself with information and getting your financial ducks lined up FIRST before even broaching it with H. What is holding you back from picking up the phone and making that appointment with L?
