FY, I feel such compassion for your wife. She knows something is wrong and she is trying so hard to figure it out.
And I feel such compassion for you. To love her so much to allow her to figure it out is such a gift to her.
I really think she is working through this, FY. It might take some time, but, I have such high hopes that she will realize that through it all, there was you, giving her wings and helping her fly, but, ready to catch her if she falls.
You are an incredible man. You are both always in my prayers.