Give her time. ML is such an emotional connection for us women that we want to be completely there (mentally). I remember times when I was in a bad mood and H wanted to ML. I couldn't. I had to be in the moment or else I wouldn't enjoy it.
However H could just flip his thoughts like a switch and he was ready to ML in a second.
Men and women were made differently when it comes to this.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
