I think RH gave you good advice, Mtnman. She knows how you feel. She can tell by your actions. And if it was about you, you wouldn't be here
Telling her and pursuing isn't going to help her figure it out. She knows how you feel. She knows it isn't about you, somewhere down deep. But she needs something to blame it on, so she doesn't feel like it's her. That's how this "works" and you know that by now.
She has to make the choice to come back. You have to leave the door open for that to happen. The rest is up to her, my friend. You can't rush it or hurry it up and I don't think you'd be very happy if you did. Not with the results.
Kind of like when you were dating. She wanted to be there. You wanted to be there. Except now, she is trying to figure herself out and if she wants to be there or not.
Unless and until she figures that out, she'll tell herself all kinds of things. She'll blame you, the sky, the frogs, and everything in between trying to figure it out.
It's not your trip though she knows you'd like to be there with her.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
