HWA, Just dropping a line to say I'm sorry things are not looking up at the moment in your sitch & that you are struggling so hard at 8 months in. I have no useful advice, unfortunately.

Our timelines & length of marriage are similar. I too am suddenly struggling, again, at 8-ish months in. Not that I really ever had peace, but I've had a harder time of late (possibly because of a family member being seriously ill).

Anyway, looks like you are getting a lot of great super advice from experienced folks (I'm trying to absorb/apply to my sitch what they are advising you), so I just wanted to say hang in there!! You have more supporters than you know!
I sincerely hope things work out, and you are happy again "soon".


H48 M46
T26 M25
S25 D21
10/4/12 BD - ILYBINILWY, S
10/7/12 H Leaves, works 2 hours away
H Done 1/13
H tells S he wants D 2/13
NO R talk since - nothing filed
We live together weekends