Last night, I casually asked if he'd "lost" his wedding ring, which he said he did which is why he hadn't been wearing it. He actually has another ring that is scratched up from an accident a few years ago but I found it and gave it to him and he put it on, which made me feel a little better. However, last night while he was in the shower I did try and check his text messages between him and possible OW (which I know he has been texting quite a bit the past 4-5 days) and he had deleted them all which is obviously very suspicious and makes me very uneasy. I do not feel comfortable confronting him about this right now because I do not have any proof and I also don't really want to admit I know he deleted them because then he would know I was trying to check his texts. And I'm also about 99% sure he would lie if there was something inappropriate going on anyway. The whole thing is really bothering me though. On top of that, I tried to initiate intimacy with him last night and he turned me down saying he just didn't feel like it. We usually are intimate 1-2 times a week and the last time was a week ago. Normally, I wouldn't think anything of it, but with everything going on, I can't help but my mind run wild.
