I know I can't. I really do come on here for support. Every so often I get this feeling that my situ is different; she's different. All I need to do is tell her. She's waiting to hear that from me.

But, y'all keep me straight! Thanks everybody.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later