Don't expect her to turnaround overnight. Her feelings are still very true to her she is still set on D. What I'm saying about the OM is that it wlll take her some time to grieve--months but its a good first step in your sitch. Don't make sudden moves like putting back your ring etc. that's pursuing especially 3days after telling you OM is out of the picture.
Don't fight the D but if you both agree to delay without any arguments then do so. Continue on your path. I'm out of time got to go to work. But check out hopefulstill's post.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
