Just remind yourself that it won't help, and will only make things worse. By not hitting her with the love right now you are actually giving your M the best chance at R. It really is true, so take this to heart!
Boy I needed this reminder myself. I often think to myself, "if H only knew how much I love(d) him, would he come back"
Thanks FY!
BombOctober 2012- OW 11/28/12 -H still denies Separated 11/29/12 Own place 12/12/12 Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13 Oct 2013 - I knew I was done Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life