Hi Mtn, I completely agree with RH. When you get this urge:
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I'm really struggling with the thought of telling her how much she means to me. I know I can't, but it's taking everything I've got to hold it back. I'm afraid I'm going to crack and pursue.
Just remind yourself that it won't help, and will only make things worse. By not hitting her with the love right now you are actually giving your M the best chance at R. It really is true, so take this to heart!
Continue to give her space but be there for her. When together keep it light and friendly. If y'all can laugh together, you're doing great!
Hang in there bro, I know this stuff can be really difficult.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
