The unexpected journey continues - next chapter II

[BklynMom]

I have decided for the month of July I am going to view my sitch in black and white terms - I am the victim and he is the abuser.

I like you can too easily sympathize with my h inner child.

For July I am not going to waste my time with that.

I know the goal is for us not to be angry but I need to spend some time being angry at the man that broke our vows, left our children and blamed me for everything.

Bea is right he is gaslighting you and shifting the blame off himself. If he took any responsiblity for his actions he wouldn't be able to look in the mirror each morning.

You did nothing to deserve his actions. This whole thing is not about you.