constant reminders - triggers

[abbey1989]

Hi...thank you all for being my sounding board. No one else to talk to.....I know that my sitch must sound pathetic. So H traveled to Vegas today. His meeting wasn't until tomorrow. Staying at a more swanky hotel than the usual Residence Inn off the strip. He was supposed to have "dinner" with a business partner at the hotel and he is trying to "earn his trust".

Meanwhile, I had a nice afternoon with S22...went to a funny movie and had dinner together. H said he would call, but I realized when I woke up at 2am that he didn't. OH WOW....I called his cell (ring no answer) and his hotel room ("guest not available). Why I do these things is beyond me.

So I called his cell one more time.....and the phone was answered....and it sounded like he was walking or something? Call terminated, and then he called and said he was walking down to the lobby to get a "water" because he didn't want to pay $12 for a bottle of water in the room. Ummmm expense it! Supposed to be a business trip. He is so full of it. Obviously, this was not just a business trip and he had to leave the room to take my call. I am just so over making all of this so easy on him.

So, have spent these early a.m. hours setting up my plan. I plan to hire a PI to find out two important pieces of information. 1) What was the final judgement in the Workers Comp case and 2) The $700/mo rent check - location of rental and who lives there.

Per phone records, H did call an attorney today. Someone who specializes in commercial litigation. (workers comp case from OW's project?) OMG! Freaking out.

So while H is out of town tomorrow, I am going to set up a meeting with an attorney. So scared and alone right now.

Thank for listening.....