Stuck between a rock and a hard place!

[dorightman]

It was the 1st time I met him. W has been seeing him now for awhile. Also, this T is W's mother's T.
W decided never to see my T again after he suggested we give our M a second chance.
After that session, I felt like dropping the rope. Not the 1st time I've felt that. I'm definitely becoming more detached after experiences like this!
The next day W took kids on vacation and I've been alone for the past week. I only respond when W texts me. I'm friendly, but detached. It's definitely easier with her gone, not having to see her. She's back the end of the week.
I'm thinking about giving her the D, but I'm still hesitant. I still want to work things out. I feel like there won't be any forward motion unless I break the chain and give her what she wants. If she wants to come back in the future, the door might still be open, who knows. All I know is that I feel like I've been banging my head against the wall now for over a year!
I'm not sure what my next move should be, or if I should even make a move. I'm very busy right now starting a new business and I probably won't see much of W anyways, so she will have her time and space.