So went to IC today. Had a pretty informative discussion. For the first time my therapist admitted that an OM is probably involved in some fashion. And then asked me if infidelity was a deal breaker for me, without hesitation I said yes.
I know in my heart I could eventually forgive, but not something I could ever forget about or be able to deal with the broken trust it all comes with. If you cant trust your spouse than whats the point.
So the wife off today getting new haircut and has already hidden her luggage thats been packed for another trip shes got planned starting Wednesday. Sure wish I just flat knew so I could file and move on or keep up with DB. Chuck tomorrow! Even my D17 thinks this next trip seems ominous. Of course we all know believe half of what she does and none of what you hear? Where does that put me again.?