I've made that mistake 2x now....not so much as a misread, but as far as acting on it myself.
My instinct tells me that there has to be something left on that other level and my hardest lesson is "patience"
After all she is still talking to me and is sincere about building a friendship


M 52
W 40
D 15 (step)
S 12 (step)
Married 7, together almost 8
Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..."
BD final 8/22/12