heres a little tid-bit that actually makes me grin....and laugh at myself for being such a dumb ass sometimes!
I can see that even after some minor little setbacks (tipping my hand, doing a little pursuing) The ex is still initiating communication......I sense her caution, but she continues to text me now and then.

I know that she still has feelings....

M 52
W 40
D 15 (step)
S 12 (step)
Married 7, together almost 8
Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..."
BD final 8/22/12