Here is another thought...
I have been doing really great at GAL, 180s, and taking care of myself....
There has been even a few glimmers that something is working...as the ex has been communicating now and then with a couple of rather long days spent together....I have another thread going on Divorced, not done, but wondering

I have made my amends...my apologies....and she knows a lot of what my heart still wants for us.

My thought is....when in all of this does she begin to really examine her own role and actually make some sort of effort to apologize herself?

M 52
W 40
D 15 (step)
S 12 (step)
Married 7, together almost 8
Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..."
BD final 8/22/12