And what else have you been doing? There are no guarantees in any program. If your W left you for the other man, there are just those times when the WAS feels that she would be happier with someone else. However, what she fails to understand is that happiness comes from within and not from an external person. That is HER choice and is not any consequence of Db.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.