Oh I def know I'm a long way away. Yes I see some improvement but I know she's in no way coming home anytime soon. Of course I would love to be wrong here but I have read enough of other stories and seen there length of situations that I'm not kidding myself. But I remember reading in the DR book about not overlooking small changes and that's just what I feel I see there with the change from, "I'm done and going to a lawyer tomorrow" to "I don't know". I do regret asking the question in the first place though. As the books state, let them initiate any talk about the relationship. As we all know it hard. Thanks for response. Any and all reality checks and encouragement is wanted and appreciated. Choosing to be patient is great advice. Thank you!


M:33
W:32
Married:8
Together:10
S:5,4 and 8 months
BD: 4/1/13
W move out day: 5/4/13
ILYBNINWY,WAS. No talk of wanting to save relationship