"I didn't find my last text to her as obsessive."

That's the problem.

"I just wish I could shake the anxiety I've been getting everyday."

That's why you come off as obsessive.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER