First off, I will tell you that no matter what you do, your W will condemn you and consider you the enemy. Are you sure she doesn't have an OM?

Also, when she starts talking down to you like that. Stop her at the beginning of it and look her dead in the eye and tell her that you will not be talked to in that manner and that you deserve respect. Then walk away. So far validating her hasn't had any affect, so try this. Start asserting yourself.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER