There's a book that everyone keeps going on about called "co-dependent no more". I've not read it, but I've had lots of recommendation to get this book. Thanks for listening to my suggestions I know when my H had an OW before, he came back to me because he could see that I was the better woman than she was He's moved in with her so it was a lot easier to do a 180 on him. The way I saw it was let her look after him now! I agree with miz here. Bite the bullet and ask one of your friends whose available to come with you. Do you go to church? Maybe there's someone at church who can come with you. IMO, some of the church members are the most honest and trustworthy people I know
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I know when my H had an OW before, he came back to me because he could see that I was the better woman than she was 
