Good job on the slight pulling back, sounds like it had the desired effect on your W
Originally Posted By: SailingAlone
I was thinking that we do not have good communication.
Yeah, you and 99% of us whether happily married or not!
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On this board, I've seen others say how good it is for improving communications.
Absolutely, it's fantastic! It's a totally different approach to communication. "Graduates" aren't supposed to share how it works because it's most effective if you go in without any preconceptions, but I don't think I'm breaching anything to say that it is not about communicating thoughts and ideas, it is about communicating (and understanding) feelings and emotions. Basically you'll discover that everything you thought you knew about communications is largely missing the mark and what really works is something that has never been addressed in the M. I'm sure you've read about "validation" in DR and also seen it mentioned a lot on these forums, but RetroV is like THE training course on learning validation techniques. RetroV should be required at the BEGINNING of a M instead of when it's in tatters.
