Ok, T, I have to tell you, I was a little pissed for a second with your h.

And then I realized, look at him, T. Look at him. He is at a beach with a married woman cheating on his wife and leaving his kids.

Pathetic, really. Sad, too.

And it is ok to be annoyed and whiny sometimes. Normal even.

But then, the realization - the hugs, the memories you've made for your children. Those are the real deals. That's the good stuff.

Leave God to deal with him, my friend.

You revel in the the really important stuff.

You are the epitome of grace and strength and dignity, my friend.

Your H - not so much.