I would think short reply's to text about S are appropriate.
It is good that you are able to contain your emotions around her, I struggle with that, just make sure you let them out in a healthy way later, or they will come out on their own
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy