Got to thinking about finances this morning. We're behind on bills, have been since April when H went to his folks and then this and then that happened.
Of late he hasn't had good trips to the casino he has said.
So on a whim I went this morning to were he keeps his bankroll. I don't think he knows I know where it is. I have monitored it for some time - and he has been truthful about how much money he has in it. For whatever that's worth anyway.
But. Oh My Goodness, ha ha ha, Lol, I can't breathe...
He didn't mention a thing about the man's wedding ring that was in the hidey hole too.
IDK what this is. It isn't "ours", I've never seen it before.
Are he and OW pretending to be married?
And what do I do about this now that I found it?
No, I'm not going to ignore it. Because I'm not interested in "keeping" him.
I'm just trying to decide on how to go about presenting it.
So far my favorite scenario is to pretend I found it on the floor near his hidey hole and be all angelic innocence just to see what he has to say about it.
I've also thought about slipping it on my finger to see if he notices.
I've thought about serving it to him with his dinner.
Now that I've vented, I'm going to work on not hyperventilating.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
