Originally Posted By: kelela
but I don't have anyone that will go with me.


Really? Have you asked anyone you know to go with you? frown

It could be that you have a friend who doesn't work until noon....

I've backed off on our conversations because I was beginning to feel like a bully. smirk

And especially here on DB I think its helpful to have others' perspectives. Sometimes hearing things from a different source makes things more understandable.

But I would hate to think you don't feel you can ask me for help.

You are NOT alone in this Kelela. I know sometimes we need alone-time to process and heal but don't fall into the trap of thinking "nobody cares anyway... if I call so-and-so I'll just be a bother to them"

I would LOVE to see you value yourself. smile

Take care girlie smile


Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.