You know Busting, I just joined end of September, beginning October and I remember your support and kindness. For some reason I thought you had been at this much longer, you are so wise now
Your path is truly your own now and of course you will have anger and resentment. I am expecting the same shortly . The trick will be to let it come and then not hold it, because as human beings we tend to. I think it is much easier than forgiveness, especially when it is someone whom we love very much.
Also, I think once we find the place of hurt within ourselves, because we have been hurt, we can begin the healing and forgiveness. Not only in regards to the WAS but ourselves as well.
Personally? I think you are well on your way and I am taking notes
