I am still on moderation, so I'm not sure who will see this (and when), but I was wondering how people handle DBing when they're still living with their partner and on fairly good terms with them?
I read Sandi2's 37 rules regularly and they have been a great help overall and I think have improved my interactions with my P since BD (although I know I still have a long way to go). In some ways I'm grateful for being in limbo, because it means she has not made a decision yet, but limbo also means....she hasn't made a decision yet. I suppose I am grateful for limbo too at this point because it's giving me time to really figure out if this relationship is what I want, but this great unknown also stresses me out.
Some have mentioned that their partners did not make a decision about their relationships until they moved out (and thus experienced a big loss and were forced to really evaluate if they wanted the R), but I was wondering if it's possible for a WAS (or near-WAS) to experience the same kind of epiphany without moving out?
