What about the Athol Kay "Sex Rank" system. Is he turned on or interested by anyone in this world? Perhaps you have let yourself go a bit, and you can improve your health, confidence and dress and improve your sex rank and husbands desire will increase.
Well, chuckle, let me answer that one for my case. Yeah, maybe I should just act like the poorly dressed, goofy college guy she used to get wet about. Due to good fortune, a lot of exercise and good diet, I weight exactly the same now as I did when I was 20. In fact, my wife says I look great. But that doesn't move her sex needle one tiny bit these days.
What you seem to be suggesting is that the problem is just a need for a "minor tune up". Maybe, but I doubt it in our cases. We've already tried all these things.
So she's just not attracted to men?
Originally Posted By: ssmguy
You might compare it to someone trying to change your sexual orientation and you knew it was something you were expected to do and you have previously like it, for whatever reason. I have to laugh at the thought of a gay man thinking he could get me interested if only he dressed well, did my chores, etc. The ONLY thought I would have in that case is, what excuse can I come up with next without having to reject him outright. That pretty much describes what my wife appears to have been doing.
That's pretty funny but directly nails what your attempting to explain.
Do you accepted the sex and affections portion is just dead ended with you? Her panties does not have to be wet, she can decide to start the act with you... That's her decision, she can also choose to pleasure you.
