Me 8 months on, dark and trying to detach.

[hotwheelsaust]

Thanks again Jeack (and welcome) and GalBaby. Again I believe the friend (EA?) plays the big part in all of this. When combined with no or literally no contact for nearly the last 8 months, quick attempt at getting rid of assets and the quick move into the friends house. Combined with not wanting to transfer back to the city. I cannot only continue to believe that the friend is more important that anything else in life at the moment.
Therefore you are right, I will continue to sit quietly, look after myself and let it play out.
Yes it is a shame the S doesn't believe in loving again. I believe I have made some good changes to myself (at least what I can see) but most importantly I understand where I went wrong and how to improve if given a chance.
I feel, as I have said many times, the W simply wants me out of the picture, that is why no seeing each other and getting rid of the assets that have her name on it.