Bad Timing and Making a Mess of Things

[slow_it_down]

How does everyone keep their R struggles private without lying?

I spent much of the weekend at the pool chatting and trying to be social to take my mind off things. Inevitably the "where's your H" conversation question was asked many many times. Since "no clue I haven't heard fom him in weeks" wasn't a good answer to keep our sitch private I found myself speechless and awkward.

Any advice for keeping things private and between me and my H w/o lying to other people about his whereabouts?