Thanks C, That really put some insight to the situation hearing your story. I've never gave DBing a real shot. But at the same time when I went dark was when she went to OM or so i think. I just need to leave it alone. My paperwork will be done this week. So if anything will work out down the road we'll already be D.
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB