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[newman7977]

"Now the advice I need is I that want to slow down this divorce. We are getting the house ready to sell and I dont want to. We have another mediation wednesday and I now want to reschedule for a later date. Im conflicted on how to do this without pissing the W off. I did mention slowing this process down a bit today and she didnt get mad and she said she thought I wanted to speed it up because this is the first I brought it up. I simply said that is not what I want. "

Hi Steve,

Not much time to post right now but since you mention to her that that's not what you want and she didnt get mad. Try to re-schedule the max time you can so you can discuss more with her. Now that the OM is out of the picture delay the process as you can. Work with her she will need time to grieve OM and the fog will start to lift.

Now I'm not caught up w your sitch just read your last post. Take it for what it's worth.

Newman