You have got to give her complete space and time. J, that last thing you sent was obsessive. Read it back to yourself a few times and try to put yourself in her mind frame right now. I'm going to share a little of what my W told me since we have started working on things. For te first 3 months of our separation she tells me now that she absolutely loathed me. Wanted to punch me in the face when saw me. Everything thing I sent her or talked to her about went in one ear and out the other. Our MC asked her what changed. She said around march she started seeing a new me. A different person. It was at that point she told MC that she could actually stand to be around me. We started spending more time together and now we are peicing. Jeack, I know it's tough to hear. But your W wants nothing to do with you right now. That may not always be the case. But right now it is. A wise man once told me that this process was all about me becoming a better man and a better father. By doing that I MIGHT get a chance to save my marriage. Focus on you!! That's all you can do right now
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
