I do have a car H gets paid on Wednesday and I wanted to let him know that I needed to go grocery shopping so he would that I will be going to go. All of my family lives about 14-22 hours away from me and the only friend that pretty much knows everything she is working the morning of the meeting. And H hasn't told anyone in his family what is going on so I can't ask any of them to come with me. As far as I know H went to meet with a lawyer last Thursday for a consultation he hasnt said anything about the meeting he had with the lawyer. And my father told me that it will be best for me just to have an consultation too just to see what are the laws are in the state that I'm living in cause each state has different laws about divorces. And my father said its just a consultation it doesn't mean that I have to file anything yet. And I shouldnt file right now until H does. But I do need to go see someone about what I'm entitled to be able to support myself and my boys in the state I live in. Cause I'm not originally from here I'm from another state. And the consultation is free so I don't have to pay anything.