Why are you texting him to go grocery shopping with you? Can't you get there by yourself? You've got to be more independent than this. I don't drive so I have to travel everywhere by bus. Isn't there an online site that you can order groceries from or a store that will deliver? Consider yourself just hit by a 2x4, lol smile
My H has taken me shopping but only if he's here at the time and it's so uncomfortable I prefer to go by myself smile
Haven't you got any friends or family near by that will go with you to see the lawyer? Even if they just take you there and then wait outside. Perhaps it's best that you do go alone, I know that my friends will only try and interfere if they are there!
I thought you said H wants a D? Has he not got a lawyer yet? If not then why are you wasting your money getting one just in case? If he wants the D, then he has to pay for it. Only get a lawyer if you have to, not just in case! I'm not going to find one until I get a letter from his lawyer. Once I receive a letter from his lawyer, I don't have to do anything for 8 weeks anyway smile More than enough time to get myself sorted smile
I know what you mean about wanting to tell your H everything. So much has happened in the last week and I so want to ring him up and tell him all about it.


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!