Bea -- I just finished reading all of your threads, both your personal ones and your threads regarding MLC. And...holy crappola. No you could not have lived with your MLCer. I am grateful that mine is still home, but heartily wished him gone for a few months during a horrible wild "anger" stage he went thru back in Spring 2011. But most of the time, except when he periodically goes mad and spews MLC craziness, our days together over the past 3 1/2 years have been calm and friendly. But YOUR xH seems to be a strange crazy man, who turned mean and stayed there. I agree, you're MUCH better off without this crazy person in your life.
I like what TVS wrote about affairs lasting a long time, being drama filled, and ultimately ending, from the Hero's Wife site. Thanks for adding that the affairs will ultimately end, "and not well."
