Hi Thumpered, I understand where you are coming from. I am finding it extremely difficult right now to live in the same house as my H. You never really do know what to expect from one minute to another. The roller-coaster ride really starts getting to you.

Hopefully you can find some peace at your new place. Perhaps some time apart will help both of you. I am thinking that might be what I need as well, space and time apart from H.
Best wishes!

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.