That's a good step forward for you worrying about it when the time comes It will all fall into place, it usually does It does get easier to pretend he doesn't exist. I still think about ringing him and texting him, but then I remember about 180ing him and if I don't need to speak to him then I don't! The way I look at it is that if he wants some space, I'll give him some space. Doing a 180 does seem to be beneficial. I'm seeing small changes, but I'm not banking on any changes at the moment. They are only small changes and he might be doing it just to stay friendly with me and not to R. Baby steps is very important and you can't rush anything! The one thing that's holding me back is this GAL. I'm stuck in the house most of the time, but then I thought I could invite my friends round here instead of going out. I plan to have a pamper evening and a swishing/clothes swapping evening. Keep up with the PMA and I'll speak to you soon
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
It will all fall into place, it usually does 
