Take it to the limit

[Takevowsserious]

Thanks rH and Linda

rH, you are right - I didn't want to cry because the flood gates would have definitely have opened, and my sobbing would have been about a lot more then a hermit crab lol! Just didn't want to go down that road.

I do seem to cry less and less. When it bubbles up, sometimes it even surprises me, like where did that come from?!?! But after all the crying I did in the months post- bomb, I think for me, crying less now is good. I cry when I need it.

I think H did feel bad about not being here to comfort S5. And feeling bad can = avoidance and running. Doesn't change what I do here and how I take care of things.

Thanks for checking in on me, it means a lot Hope you are having a happy morning.

Thanks for checking in on me too Linda, you are sweet. Don't feel bad about getting sad at work - happens to the best of us!

Is it wrong to hope that my H is miserable, at least for part of each day?

I'm sure his itchiness did not magically disappear. Just like FT's gut lol! Okay, so maybe that was a wee bit spiteful

Hope you have a better day too. WE can do this