I pleaded with my wife after her to give me a chance but she refuses to. That is when my C steps in and says that he will teach me how to speak my wife's love language.
By now, wife has already shifted back to her own house. I put what i learnt from my IC into use. I sent my wife roses daily and wrote a small card to her. Initially she said that seeing the flowers remind her how much i didn't care for her in the past. I still carry on sending flowers and her favorite food daily along with a card. After 1 week, she finally asked to meet me for dinner. Her original intention was to settle our new housing on whether we should sell it. In the end, she says that we will try again in this relationship.
We tried for a week and she said that she want to continue with the divorce. Yet again i cry, beg and plead with her. She told me that we shouldn't contact each other for 2 weeks. In the end she messaged me that we should try again after 1 week.
1 week later, she asked for a meetup and say that she is firm on the divorce and that i do not understand her at all. She also mentioned that she has this barrier for me whenever she sees me. I cry, beg and plead yet again but she refuses to change her mind. She started heading back to her place from the meetup location and i followed her. After i've 'sent her back', i quitely left. It was this moment, she text me again asking me to look for her at her place. She then told me that she wants to try the relationship again. She asked for my plan on how we should carry on from here. I told her that i need to work on my communication with her. We agreed to go for date once per week.
We went out for a date and that didn't go well, she didn't speak at all. I was doing all the talking. In the end, after one week, i told her we need to talk about us.
