No manipulation at all Rock. I believe I have let it gone on long enough and the cycle of EA must stop. I really don't want my kids near that sitch. And my kids are starting to get confuse of our demeanor either were breaking up or getting together or what. I'm sensing this at home.
If she files or leave tomorrow, there's nothing I can do about that and she's free to go But she seem to be choosing to stick around. I do feel also I'm to the point of actually filing myself and planning my future with me and my kids. Not at this moment because I have to get more info and I would like to see how it goes when d18 goes to college in aug.
My Ws latest proposal of refinancing really puts a risk on our finances and I will not agree with that.
You need to firm up Rock, not sure I read your sitch but in general you need to have courage. But let me tell you that you don't get that point overnight, you will feel it when you get to that point. Thanks for stopping.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
