GotoGirl, My W said that I wasn't emotionally meeting her needs and that I wasn't her best friend. Sounds like a similar script. I just wanted to roll my eyes...are we in high school or are we grown adults with kids, responsibilities, and 12 years of marriage and history together. Why does your H need you to be proud of him in order to have a satisfying relationship? Again, my W told me that I never, quote never, told her in 12 years of marriage that I loved her. Really, how ridiculous is that statement! Same thing with your H...after 15 years of marriage you've never loved him? Sounds just silly...don't you wish that you can flip a switch and get the old person back