Haven't been feeling well. I think because I feel like this is the end although I have felt that way before.
I feel like h is always moody after he talks to OW and yes I think he is talking to her again even after he said he wouldn't. He told our 2 oldest girls and of course he didn't tell them how long it had been going on or that he is still talking to her.
Not sure what to think. He is very angry right now because we were out of town and a couple of the moms know about the A and they were not nice to him. Mostly cold but one of them said some things to him when she was drunk...not that she wouldn't have said it before.
I don't know what he thought people would be like. These are friends of both of ours.
When we got back he said he was done. I think he talked to OW on the phone on his drive back. We were in separate cars and D19 was in my car. He seems to be worse after talking to her.
So I went and talked to his mom on Thursday. Told her I didn't know what to do. I have always gotten along with H's parents. We talked a while and H, he's living there, got home early and saw me there. His mom said a few choice things to him and he stormed out. He still won't talk to me. He felt like he was being ganged up on.
I'm sure that has pushed him back to OW full force. Maybe this is what was meant to be. I really feel like he is getting close to the end of the journey, not sure what stage, but maybe we are going to be the statistic where they marry OW.
I hate to think that way since I have been standing for our m for so long. Before this past weekend I really thought we had a decent shot. Now, not so much. Does anyone know if they are worse close to the end?
Is there anything DB wise we should be doing when they recognize the damage but still think we are to blame?
M 48 H 50 M 25 T 27 D 20,18,15 6/11 H filed 3/12 H dropped 4/12 H moved out
