Thanks R,

"This is your single most important mission..taking the Pressure off your W. Combine that with Space and Patience and you have a good chance at reconciliation."

If this is the one I could get hold of, I would be a long way. Today was moving day, so rollercoaster is WAY up and down.

"Instead, it is demonstrating to your W(as she is crying out to you for help) that you really do care for and love her enough to give her what she needs inspite of how much it is hurting you."

I do care for her and love her despite the words she has said and things she has done. If she is crying out, she is NOT letting me see or help, now.

Thanks as always.

Hang in there.