If this has been something you knew she didn't like, then stop telling telling her to start over and she just might like it. I have been the W who wasn't attracted to her H. And nothing made me madder than for him to act as if he had never heard a thing I said and try to by-pass it by telling me I might just like it! She may have said what she did b/c she feels as if you are not truly listening to her request.
I was never a fan of French kissing (usually b/c the guy kissing me didn't know how). I can get into it when I am feeling passionate. Maybe your W would be more receptive if you save those type kisses for when you are having passionate love making. But if you start out doing it, instead of building her up to the point of "wanting more", then you might as well shoot yourself in the foot.
To me, it sounds like she is trying to tell you what she does not like and what she prefers at the moment. If you persists in doing it anyway......then she won't bother being gentle in how she describes it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
