I guess you are gonna have to catch yourself before you text her anything. Type it and read it over and over before hit send. I'm sure the ugly head shows once in a while but to her it's probably not "once in a while" since she doesn't see the other sarcastic texts or comments you wanted to say but didn't.
I follow many threads on this forum and sometimes I get confused with who is who. But I remembered the sarcastic comment you sent when your W was out late few weeks back, right? Because that's what caught my eye most. So when I saw another one in your thread I remembered you "Oh it's the guy in piecing who send sarcastic texts" Sorry if I'm being harsh but it seems like you also know that's where you need to work on and I just wanted you to know the passive aggressive texts are a real turn-off, especially coming from guys IMHO.
I had recently started following your thread and admit I haven't read your entire threads, so I apologize if I'm being picky about your weakness but it seems like you have come a LONG way and now you are piecing! So I wanted to make a comment about that so you can keep on working on your R without unnecessary bumps that might push her away.
Rooting for you!
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins