Moving forward together from a mess

[cbtdad]

You're right. The text was completely passive aggressive. It's one of the things I have been working on and I have gotten much better, but still shows its ugly head every once in a while. We talked about this morning. I told her the only problem i had with last night was her not telling me she was going out. Because she said she would let me know if she was going out. She said she didn't because she was afraid I would make her feel bad about going and tell her not to go out.
This is something I use to worry about last year. But I worried because I knew he was unhappy. And that unhappiness was my fault. Things are definitely different now as last night didn't bother me at all except for her not letting me know plans.
She was even home by midnight. That is a boundary we have put on each other. Must be home by midnight unless we are together. Nothing good happens after midnight