Take it to the limit

[Raine]

H seems very interested if I inject somethings about me, but he won't ask anything. Interesting that your H is like that too. So often I'm thinking, you remember you don't want to be with me, right?

I think T if he "wanted" her out of this hidden affair, he would have her. He would be gone. Too many of these MLCers leave for the OW and have that relationship, but like uR's H, they don't even want it. Your H is not even doing that.

That's what I think with my H too, and before he moved back and I was heading towards the lawyer, I even said, "why did you not just divorce me before getting involved with her?" He wouldn't answer, but it was so clear: because he doesn't want her. He doesn't want an actual relationship with her. She is the band aid, and apparently she does a pretty crappy job at that. Kind of like what I've heard said about big gals--guys will sleep with them, but they won't be seen in public with them. My H, though he is insecure right now, definitely puts on the front that he is the best thing since sliced bread. He is not going to be okay with people thinking he is in a relationship with any of these women.

I'm glad to hear your husband had a restless night